I know it's a choice to be a parent but some should really not be base on cases like this and cases I've personally dealt with when I worked in the social service field.
There are good and bad apples in every basket. In regards to the Hmong basket in particular, a few Hmong folks have actually said, "I want to have as many daughters as possible so I can collect their bride-price when the time comes"...All they care about is the money, not their children. They actually hoped that their daughters get pregnant so it's a lock.