Sounds almost like an Onion article but then it sounds legit also.
Umm, I do see a lot of (and not just some) South Korean and Japanese singers and actors acting and looking unmanly--this is based on my definition of what "unmanly" is. But have no fear, there's a sector of society that accepts effeminate men because they believe in accepting everyone as they are. But, remember, too, that there are still many people on the other side of the spectrum who are reluctant to accepting effeminate men because it doesn't agree with them. These people's views should be respected also, right?
I see effeminate men as wanting to bend the rules--they don't want to be seen as neither men nor women. But, people have to remember that the lines of what it means to be a man vs a woman have been defined for a long time. Not everyone is comfortable with seeing a rise in effeminate men. to some people, effeminate men do not convey "strength" and "masculinity". Maybe people want to feel protected? And if they are surrounded by a lot of effeminate men, it makes them feel unsafe against enemy men from the outside who do show strength and muscle?
Anyway, it boils down to the question of, How important is it to follow social norms? If not important, is it OK for adults to act like children and for children to act like adults? Is it OK for people to act like apes? LOL. I don't know.