True. Some fat chicks are insecure about their looks. However, I've never been insecure about my looks and here is why. First of all, I can't change the way I look without some medical procedure. Secondly, my real life, in-person suitors tend to be attractive men so why would I ever lower myself to some unknown man who may not even measure up to what I'm already getting?
Think about it. If a woman really was that attractive? Why then does she need to post a pic of herself on a dating site? Wouldn't she already be catching the men in real life? Me thinks that she may have the look to get their attention but neither the value to keep them.
So what I'm saying is that I've never had the need to go on any dating site with a pic of myself. Men approach me because they've already seen me and for those who haven't but got my number from a friend, then I need not pass out a pic like I'm on some desperate dating site.
Is a dating site not a form of social media platform? It is the next generation of coolness to get engaged in social media. So dating sites during that time frame are non bias these days. In other words, hot people do go on dating sites too. Well to some, they have their own mental illness. They may not be in the dating portal just to look for a date so of speak but uses such platform to see how much they are worth. Just like IG and IG models. They are doing it for other women because that is how women are. Think in terms of breast implants. Men would think that women are getting implants or cosmetic procedures for them but really now, it is actually for the ladies because women are that combative when it comes to looks. For self esteem sure but never for the men unless they are in the sex industry or something.
I have to say that the online dating site or app are coming in waves. I consider my stories as the first wave and this was before there was Tinder, we already have free yahoo personal pages and other dating sites like E harmony and even Craiglists have one as well. From what I noticed from the first wave:
It is still the old cliche that hot women do not share their pictures on dating profile sites. They are fishing the pool in a different or alternative way. They already know that if they put their pictures up, they will attract all the wrong characters. Same goes with guys who are loaded. They will hide their profile or profession and not wanting their careers and money to lure them gold diggers to their plate.
So now with yourself, you are walking through the same old cliche as I mentioned above. Hot chick or chick who thinks she's hot do not need to advertise her face on a dating site and hoping that a true knight will somehow come to her by magic. Once again, it is all about your own mental illness cuz we all have some form of mental illness. Not having a picture or having a fake picture is why there is a tv show called catfish and that is self explanatory.