A decline in office parties due to #MeToo
https://www.yahoo.com/news/metoo-era-office-party-etiquette-110009702.html?.tsrc=fauxdalBoth my wife and I agree long ago that the work place is a place to work but also a F-fest for many people. Therefore, one must be very careful. Office parties is just another invite to get to know people more and F, have affairs, one night stands, etc. My wife and I would avoid our office parties at all cost unless its a must show. Even then, we would not drink alcohol and be outta there as soon as it becomes pointless to stay any longer. Sometimes we would here about the crazy things co-worker do at the office parties the day after and who F who, Yes, you hear that stuff. Best thing is talk to your spouse/gf/bf about the red flags, pros and cons, etc. Know how to handle pressure, situations, who to look out for, who is being too friendly, too touchy, etc. Example: You going to the party, "Nope", problem solved, right.
We both talk about this kind of stuff every once a year or from time to time as a refresher, yes a REFRESHER, just like company training, lol. We also both agreed that if an affairs do happens, it is the will of the person wanting to do it because it takes two to tango. Therefore best to divorce and don't use the kids as a leverage to stay for more suffering. Glad that all those refresher pays off, as we both grow old together and still very much in love.
There's a lot of naive couples out there who goes to work everyday and have no clue of the signs. So, talk to your spouse/gf/bf about this kind of stuff because the work place is also a F-fest, you heard the stories, don't be a victim. Good luck.