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Title: Hmong Women in California
Post by: NorCalBoriquen on October 27, 2018, 07:10:51 PM
Hi everyone,

I am not Hmong so I do have a couple question about American Hmong women. I once dated a couple of Hmong girls when I use to live in Sacramento, Ca.
I was very attracted to them but I found they liked to party and drink which was a deal breaker for me. I had talked to a couple other Hmong's who also liked clubbing and drinking.
Is this normal for Hmong women or was I taking to the wrong women? I am not into clubbing, drinking or parties. I feel I am too old for that and all I wanted was to have a strong relationship with a family. 
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: Reporter on October 29, 2018, 05:16:24 AM
Haven't you heard of our Hmong women lawyers and doctors and business ladies and leaders? I know a few who are available.

If you don't like clubbing and drinking, then you have met the wrong women.

There are many who aren't like that. Just take your time to meet more. You'll find them at the churches or new year and tournment events, not at clubs. I don't know why people think clubbers represent a whole culture or anything like that. Hmong are just like other groups: a mix of two things--good and bad. You just need to find your niche.

Good Hmong women don't just go for any clubber. So, make sure you don't appear to be one also.


Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: Gucci K on October 29, 2018, 09:03:58 AM
Hi everyone,

I am not Hmong so I do have a couple question about American Hmong women. I once dated a couple of Hmong girls when I use to live in Sacramento, Ca.
I was very attracted to them but I found they liked to party and drink which was a deal breaker for me. I had talked to a couple other Hmong's who also liked clubbing and drinking.
Is this normal for Hmong women or was I taking to the wrong women? I am not into clubbing, drinking or parties. I feel I am too old for that and all I wanted was to have a strong relationship with a family.
each to it's own...however to dismiss hmong women because they like to drink and party, would be at your own lost.   we hmong people drink, but we drink in good company (you'll see it at weddings, from special events to birthdays and simple gatherings).  We have a case of beer in our fridge, wine and spirits stocked away not because we are alcoholics but to 'tos qhua', a term meaning to 'welcome guests'.  to refuse the offering of a drink is a sign of disrespect (please note: it's not about the drinking but the offering).  In retrospect, if a hmong woman doesn't offer you a drink, you can arguably say, she isn't in to you.  when it comes to parties, there shouldn't be any gripes...this is where you'll find a high majority of them (hmong women) to be single (primarily at the clubs).  you can go to church, but are you a believer?  going to church to find a wife is a sin.  you can go to the new years, but how are you going to distinguish who's married or single among the 1000's, why make your dating plan even harder?  you can go to a professionals event, like hmong women meeting of the minds, powerful hmong women, hmong women realtors, lawyers and/or doctors but it's not a dating event...can't go there and say, "i'm here to find a professional wife."

when you feel old and want to settle down, skip all the fun events, here's a few options you can take...#1 overseas, best place to get married and train your own wife.  #2 funeral homes (ms. goodie two-shoes, will be serving food there)...and lastly, maybe farmer's market...those girls don't party or drink, they need to get up early and help their parents with produce collection and sales (caution: avoid the nyabs, aka..daughter in-laws).

bottomline, if you got the skills heart, you can make any hmong woman (party poopers to bi-polar alcoholic drunks, and especially a ho.e) into a housewife.

Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: theking on October 29, 2018, 09:37:30 AM
Hi everyone,

I am not Hmong so I do have a couple question about American Hmong women. I once dated a couple of Hmong girls when I use to live in Sacramento, Ca.
I was very attracted to them but I found they liked to party and drink which was a deal breaker for me. I had talked to a couple other Hmong's who also liked clubbing and drinking.
Is this normal for Hmong women or was I taking to the wrong women? I am not into clubbing, drinking or parties. I feel I am too old for that and all I wanted was to have a strong relationship with a family.

Depends as each group has their partyers, home bodies, etc...whether it be White, Black, Spanish, Asian...
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: NorCalBoriquen on October 29, 2018, 07:38:28 PM
I actually met both at work when I use to work for a bank in Sacramento (not as a teller).
I really don't believe in stereotypes as I am Puerto Rican and Italian and heard many bad things about my race and culture. I know both women I met in the past had just got out of a really bad relationship and maybe they were just letting loose and spreading their wings. The thing I didn't like is how their friends were able to convince them to be wild. I am not perfect as I have seen and dealt my fair share of craziness but as history has taught us it will repeat itself. I dont like going backwards.
It's funny, I actually grew up in San Francisco and never heard of Hmong's until I moved to the East Bay Area (San Pablo/Richmond). I remember meeting a few Hmong's and they were cool. But when I moved to Sactown I noticed a lot of Hmong women with guys who treated them very poorly. I couldn't understand why these women would allow men to talk to them so badly.
I grew up very ghetto as a child (poor on food stamps) and seen how people treated women in the housing projects I use to live in. I couldn't talk to people that way, it's not cool.
As for a women's education, it's not that important to me. There are several educated women out there that don't have degrees and are doing very well. There are also single mothers out there who are juggling work and family life who don't have a degree.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: theking on October 30, 2018, 12:34:00 AM
I actually met both at work when I use to work for a bank in Sacramento (not as a teller).
I really don't believe in stereotypes as I am Puerto Rican and Italian and heard many bad things about my race and culture. I know both women I met in the past had just got out of a really bad relationship and maybe they were just letting loose and spreading their wings. The thing I didn't like is how their friends were able to convince them to be wild. I am not perfect as I have seen and dealt my fair share of craziness but as history has taught us it will repeat itself. I dont like going backwards.

I think you're correct regarding those women wanting a release after their "really bad relationship"...Seems like it was a combination of that, and alcohol. I say alcohol because I've seen my fair share of folks using Jose Cuervo, Jack Daniels, Hennessy, etc., to help them ease their depression/sadness. Perhaps they were in a very controlling, abusive, and boring relationships and have never experienced being "wild" and were curious?? Many Hmong girls are raised under very strict family environment to maintain their bride-price value and some married at a very young age so that's probably the first time those girls could really let loose...?  ???

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It's funny, I actually grew up in San Francisco and never heard of Hmong's until I moved to the East Bay Area (San Pablo/Richmond). I remember meeting a few Hmong's and they were cool.

Yep, you're not alone when it comes to "never heard of Hmong's"...I've had friends and co-workers that have never heard of Hmong either mainly because we are a very small minority group in America. Plus, when our elders were fighting along side and helping the Americans during the Vietnam War, it was a "Secret War" so no real mention of the Hmong's contribution in history books and what not...

When we arrived in America, we lived in Richmond for a short period too. Since we were poor, we lived in the ghetto..Richmo nd is already on the bad side as a whole on average so you can imagine how much worst the ghetto areas are...

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But when I moved to Sactown I noticed a lot of Hmong women with guys who treated them very poorly. I couldn't understand why these women would allow men to talk to them so badly.

In the patriarch Hmong society, women have very little say in the matter...At a very young age, many Hmong girls were raised and brought up to be obedient especially towards their husbands, in-laws, etc., even if they are in a forced or arranged marriage situation. They just have to suck it up. I'm glad to see some have progressed, realized their worth and basic human rights and stand up for what's right and fight those inequalities. Sadly some still in that hopelessness mode...

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I grew up very ghetto as a child (poor on food stamps) and seen how people treated women in the housing projects I use to live in. I couldn't talk to people that way, it's not cool.
As for a women's education, it's not that important to me. There are several educated women out there that don't have degrees and are doing very well. There are also single mothers out there who are juggling work and family life who don't have a degree.

Yep, good to see feel that way too. I grew up in a broken home where my father was controlling and abusive. I'm glad my mom was able to empowered herself and got out of that mess in America. Even at a young age, I knew how wrong my father was for mistreating my mom so everything I observed he did that was bad, I turn 180 degree from it. As we grow into adulthood, we are in charge of ourselves so repeating those bad cycles is just an excuse for many IMO. My question for the cycle repeating folks is, 'how did you feel when that happen?' If you feel bad about it, then why repeat it??

Also agree that education/status/wealth/race/religion ...etc., is not as important as how the person carries him/herself...in society.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: blia on October 30, 2018, 11:40:47 AM
take a look around you, see who your friends are? how you are meeting these people are a reflection of what you are like yourself

anyone can give you a million ways of how to look for an ideal women but you know what's best for yourself. Ask around, join social networks and get to know their online persona and then work around there to see how you would go about in getting to know more like minded individual like yourself. Churches, funerals, clubs and Hmong newyears may not be the best approach if you're a shy individual who's not a social butterfly.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: DuMa on October 30, 2018, 12:42:57 PM
Hi, as a hmong man, I would like for you to leave my Hmong women alone.  It is against my culture if I approve your lusting over a territory that is foreign to you.   :2funny:i
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: NorCalBoriquen on October 31, 2018, 11:31:16 PM
Thanks for all our input and advise, I have learned a few things. And to the Hmong man who told me to stay away from his Hmong women.. Your a funny guy!  :2funny: I wouldnt care if you dated women from my race but I would advise you not to if you never have because 8-10 Puerto Rican women dont like being talked down to and they will fight back. Most Latina women are so drama, that's why I stay away, it's hard work to make them happy.
I would have to say the the things that I do like about Hmong women is their personality, loyalty and beauty. It's hard meeting Asian women who are not semi-racist towards mixed ethnicities. When I tell people I am Puerto Rican they are surprise and say I am not black. Sorry not all boricuas are black, most come from Europe like Spain as my family did.

Anyhow, thanks for taking it easy on me up on here. I find people in forums are not always so nice and become very defensive or some people like to start stuff (Internet Gangstas). I was curious about Hmong women and always wondered if I did something wrong in my past relationships.

Thanks again.  O0
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: Dok_Champa on November 01, 2018, 11:03:57 AM
You find the Hmong women you're seeking at Hmong Church.  They also like what you like.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: blia on November 01, 2018, 12:55:18 PM
Thanks for all our input and advise, I have learned a few things. And to the Hmong man who told me to stay away from his Hmong women.. Your a funny guy!  :2funny: I wouldnt care if you dated women from my race but I would advise you not to if you never have because 8-10 Puerto Rican women dont like being talked down to and they will fight back. Most Latina women are so drama, that's why I stay away, it's hard work to make them happy.
I would have to say the the things that I do like about Hmong women is their personality, loyalty and beauty. It's hard meeting Asian women who are not semi-racist towards mixed ethnicities. When I tell people I am Puerto Rican they are surprise and say I am not black. Sorry not all boricuas are black, most come from Europe like Spain as my family did.

Anyhow, thanks for taking it easy on me up on here. I find people in forums are not always so nice and become very defensive or some people like to start stuff (Internet Gangstas). I was curious about Hmong women and always wondered if I did something wrong in my past relationships.

Thanks again.  O0

He's not even Hmong. He's Vietnamese. He is making a mockery of his self stupidity. Hmong people aren't that rude.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: theking on November 01, 2018, 01:47:25 PM
And to the Hmong man who told me to stay away from his Hmong women.. Your a funny guy!  :2funny:

I think he's just being " funny" by mocking some of those primitive Hmong men that don't believe in women having the right to choose like them. Seems like every race has those primitive apples in their basket.

Like this thread I created:

...the Hmong guys that have a problem when Hmong girls date/marry out of race and/or ethnic group...They failed to see the simple fact that women are also human and should have the same rights as them i.e., being able to choose who they date/marry... No need for this long drawn out answer IMO...:idiot2::

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"Why do some white men get angry when white women date Asian men?"

Those answers saying here it doesn't happen shouldn't forget that it's not happening only because it doesn't happen in large rates nowadays because most women have already been brainwashed by white male owned media to think negatively about Asian men perpetuating Stereotypes about them. And this includes Asian women.

Again, don't forget why white males started perpetuating such Stereotypes in the first place. Historically, Indian Males(and other South Asian Males) who went to UK in colonial period almost up to independence had good rapport with White Females, which irked these Men to perpetuate Stereotypes about the 'Dark, Indian Rapist' and so on. Also many Interracial bonding were prevented. Then we have Chinese males face this pressure during the 'Yellow Peril' time. Filipino men were doing good with white women somewhere once and there was even a Filipino actor in Hollywood who was becoming successful. But white males tried the best to pull that actor down and perpetuate Stereotypes so that White women don't date these men. During the Japanese Internment , whites makes with Japanese wives weren't punished while the opposite pairing was put in the camp.

Meanwhile if we have white males being with non white females, we have a bad history were such couples have been racist and Misandry against men of the non white race. Take for example during Colonialism in Latin America, Canary Islands, Philippines, etc. The racism had been Hyper-descent, whereby the White males made unions with non white females (many rapes too occurred) , while they killed the native men or were racist and violent to them. In Latin America, it was between white males and native/African women. Similarly in Anglo ruled countries too, such instances have occurred but not in a huge scale.

Even today we have tons of Racist Far right leaning White males with Asian partners but it's uncommon in the other way.

Those primitive idiotic White males sure hate couples like this one:

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Yay, for white girls and Asian guys! I’m a European mutt and he is 100% Chinese, born in China, moved here at 15. Here in CA, there is no problem, but when we went to China to visit his family, you’d think I was famous with all the stares let alone photos people took of us! Also, I couldn’t help posting this pic of us at Halloween. I’m sleeping beauty and he is Li Shang from Mulan! We are to be wed in less than 6 months!

(http://www-static.weddingbee.com/pics/277332/Halloween.jpg)

Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: theking on November 01, 2018, 01:51:40 PM
You find the Hmong women you're seeking at Hmong Church.  They also like what you like.

Depends as I've seen some Hmong church girls that are worst than the club girls and vice-versa..in terms of character...so one should still approach with caution...rega rdless
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: Mr_Mechanic on November 01, 2018, 02:01:04 PM
otherwise, just be like this person.

https://people.com/human-interest/amethyst-realm-sex-with-ghost-fiance/
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: Believe_N_Me on November 04, 2018, 01:19:47 AM
As a Hmong person let me be the first to tell you that a majority of Hmong people are very ignorant, even the educated ones. Why is this? Because the majority of them grew up in a Hmong bubble. The majority of them were raised in a large Hmong community, living in states with the highest Hmong populations: California, Minnesota, and Wisconsin.

If they did have encounters with other races, it was typically done out of defiance, which means they were somewhat of a black sheep to begin with.

Many of them did not engage with other races until they were in college. Most likely they spent their entire childhood and teenage years hanging out with other Hmong youths, specifically cousins.

Everything they think they know about other races is from watching television and movies.

Many of them come from large clans which means every weekend was spent around more Hmong people - their relatives.

This is why you see many Hmong young adults to even adults nowadays acting the fool. They finally got a taste of freedom and life away from Hmong community.




Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: Believe_N_Me on November 04, 2018, 01:21:52 AM
Of course, there are the few who lived in a large Hmong community but remained rather private. But the majority are as I described above.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: NorCalBoriquen on November 08, 2018, 09:11:46 PM
I find most people who act out and go crazy with the partying is mostly due to having strict parents growing up, getting out of a bad relationship or from having kids very young.
I never been into clubbing or getting messed up. I didn't come from a strict family as my father passed away when I was 3 months and my mom was an alcoholic growing up. I just learned from mistake made from myself or from others. Education was not an option growing up. My priorities were putting food on the table and trying not to get killed because where I lived you were either a norteno or sureno and I chosen none of that crap but still got harassed. 
Now that I am older I can relate to people who grew up the same way I did, with hardship. I respect those who were able to walk away and do something with their life.
This is what I found with the two Hmong women I once knew. They were lost feeling like others wouldn't understand so they only dated Hmong guys who treated them like crap. I couldn't understand why their man treated them that way because they were so beautiful and sweet.  In the end they were more open towards others and they are doing better now.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: ProudLao on November 09, 2018, 09:14:16 AM
For some people it is so as you stated for some it’s just getting out with friends and for the ambiance. I totally understand the hardship and education part having been through it myself.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: Gucci K on November 12, 2018, 12:54:20 PM
Hmong women in California are so hot..they're literally burning the state down! ha!
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: DuMa on November 12, 2018, 01:41:00 PM
He's not even Hmong. He's Vietnamese. He is making a mockery of his self stupidity. Hmong people aren't that rude.

Shut your corn hole up.  Don't tell me you don't have Hmong men who don't like their Hmong women to stray.  If you can gather enough, it then becomes an epidemic. 

Hmong men are only obsessive to their Hmong women is because they loved them.  Nothing wrong with that.  It just pushes them further away thus all. 

The hmong women I dated, well let's say they are renegades.  You think I like that type of Hmong?  I'll spank them and send them back to their Hmong boys and get this, not a freaking thank you. 
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: NorCalBoriquen on November 13, 2018, 05:24:08 PM
Hmong or not you should always treat your women with respect. In the end she will be the only one standing by your side when others have forgotten about you. If she's not standing by your side then she was never true to you and that would be your fault for not seeing the signs.
We all get angry and want to put our women in check at times but it takes a big enough man to admit he was wrong and learn from their mistakes and move on.
If you find yourself constantly feeling protective of your women then there's no trust. If that's the case then you should move on until your happy with someone else.
For those of you who get mad seeing other ethnicities dating women of your own ethnicity you need to deal with it. Times are changing and there's nothing you can do about it. Embrace it as you will inherit an bigger family and learn new things about their culture. Just because you see how some people from different ethnicities act towards other people doesn't mean all people from that group are bad people.
I have respect for everyone  O0
 
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: theking on November 13, 2018, 06:26:39 PM
Race, ethnic, religion, status, class, clan, etc., means very little to me...When I look for a mate especially a soulmate, character and compatibility are way more important...
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: NorCalBoriquen on November 18, 2018, 12:49:03 AM
I have talked to people who said religion is a must for an relationship. I dont really care if a person is religious or not as I am not religious. I treat people the way I would want to be treated.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: DuMa on November 20, 2018, 02:00:11 PM
Damn my Vietnamese and Purto rican brothers...you guys got so many hot ass chicks, why hmong chicks??? there's only enough to go around for ourselves...re member we don't even make 1% of the world population...g o back to your women...wait for us to multiply exponentially first...;D

Hunting exclusively Hmong?

What is there to like about Hmong women?

Don't know about him but I hunt everything.  If I go eat at a vegetarian buffet, I'll go hungry. 

I worked in San Jose, the city where it is a rare to see Hmong.  I'll go hungry if I eat bay area Hmong only. 

Thank you for saying my Viet women are hot.  Some of the hot ones are hard to please as well.  From what I know, you can fake the baller status to them but you got 2 weeks to fawk them before they realize that you still living with Mommy. 

Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: YAX on November 27, 2018, 12:46:14 AM
Hi everyone,

I am not Hmong so I do have a couple question about American Hmong women. I once dated a couple of Hmong girls when I use to live in Sacramento, Ca.
I was very attracted to them but I found they liked to party and drink which was a deal breaker for me. I had talked to a couple other Hmong's who also liked clubbing and drinking.
Is this normal for Hmong women or was I taking to the wrong women? I am not into clubbing, drinking or parties. I feel I am too old for that and all I wanted was to have a strong relationship with a family.
yeah, it's normal if she wants to get laid, not if she wants a family and real relationship.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: theking on November 27, 2018, 06:18:51 PM
yeah, it's normal if she wants to get laid, not if she wants a family and real relationship.

Depends as there are some club girls that want a family and a real relationship and there are also some non-club girls that don't want a family and a real relationship.. .
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: Believe_N_Me on November 30, 2018, 01:48:19 AM
I find most people who act out and go crazy with the partying is mostly due to having strict parents growing up, getting out of a bad relationship or from having kids very young.
I never been into clubbing or getting messed up. I didn't come from a strict family as my father passed away when I was 3 months and my mom was an alcoholic growing up. I just learned from mistake made from myself or from others. Education was not an option growing up. My priorities were putting food on the table and trying not to get killed because where I lived you were either a norteno or sureno and I chosen none of that crap but still got harassed. 
Now that I am older I can relate to people who grew up the same way I did, with hardship. I respect those who were able to walk away and do something with their life.
This is what I found with the two Hmong women I once knew. They were lost feeling like others wouldn't understand so they only dated Hmong guys who treated them like crap. I couldn't understand why their man treated them that way because they were so beautiful and sweet.  In the end they were more open towards others and they are doing better now.

Due to some Phers' fragile self-esteem, a thread I posted up earlier can explain why those two women were with loser Hmong men.

Did you know that it's actually considered quite judgmental, arrogant and snobby for a Hmong women to want to date only successful and attractive men?

The Hmong have very foolish romantic notions about life. To be viewed as a good, kind-hearted person, women are expected to always prefer the homeless orphan type and help him become a rags to riches story.

Every story promises happiness, which is why many Hmong girls foolishly go for this type of men who turn out - not surprisingly - to be bums.

The Hmong have a very twisted view that someone in bad shape is in no position to judge so they must be nicer and kinder. This is why you see a lot of attractive Hmong women with loser Hmong men.

Hmong mothers who push their daughters toward the successful and well-to-do suitor are always depicted as greedy, mean, controlling and judgmental. She's suppose to take in the stray dog and give her daughter over to him.

It's such a silly notion. Hmong movies are filled with this storyline.

It's so ridiculous that during courtship if a man asks a girl what she wants in a man, for her to say "someone who is intelligent, has courage,  has a good-paying job to support a family, and comes from a good family background" might turn off a man!

It's so dumb. The theory is that if a girl really loves a man then he's suppose to test her by being a total broke-a.ss bum. Silly games, indeed.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: theking on November 30, 2018, 04:32:46 AM

Did you know that it's actually considered quite judgmental, arrogant and snobby for a Hmong women to want to date only successful and attractive men?

And yet you put Hmong men down by saying they are short fat and have flat nose like your divorcee spouse...

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It's so dumb....being a total broke-a.ss bum. Silly games, indeed.

Glad you realized how much of an epic fail you are by being "flat broke" despite your mom's huge sacrifices over the years to give you the "world"...absolutely nothing to show for it...and what do you do? Yep, kicked your own fragile elderly mother to the curb like garbage when she needs you the most... :idiot2:
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: lilly on December 14, 2018, 05:14:35 PM
Interesting and funny inputs in this thread.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: Believe_N_Me on December 16, 2018, 02:11:16 AM
Interesting and funny inputs in this thread.

But sadly true.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: NorCalBoriquen on January 26, 2019, 11:01:25 PM
Regardless of some people's bad views of Hmong women on here, I dont see that at all. Maybe it's because I don't live in a large Hmong community. I have never look at a race and thought of bad stereotypes (except for Chinese drivers). You will find your black sheep in all ethnicities no matter where you live.
Who cares about persons weight or fingers size lol. The only people who really care about that are shallow people who think their god's gift to the world. Do you buy a car or house because it looks nice outside even though it's falling apart inside? I find larger women have the best hearts and make the best parents O0
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: theking on January 28, 2019, 12:39:11 AM
I have never look at a race and thought of bad stereotypes (except for Chinese drivers).

Perceiving "Chinese" or even Asians as a whole as bad drivers is as shallow as perceiving "Hmong girls" like to party and drink...

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You will find your black sheep in all ethnicities no matter where you live.

True, as there are bad drivers or members of other groups that also like party and drink ...too.
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: NorCalBoriquen on January 29, 2019, 07:11:31 PM
Perceiving "Chinese" or even Asians as a whole as bad drivers is as shallow as perceiving "Hmong girls" like to party and drink...


True, as there are bad drivers or members of other groups that also like party and drink ...too.
Those are your words, I never said anything about "Asian as bad drivers", just Chinese and it's a fact. Stop trying to twist words around to make yourself like a victim. You must be trying to pick a fight or you must be bored, either way I am not punching bag. It must be missable being you. I wonder what goes through your head all day. You probably get all defensive when it rains thinking God has it out for you or you think the world is about to end when you get a flat tire in a parking lot.
Chill out...
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: theking on January 30, 2019, 12:48:52 AM
Those are your words, I never said anything about "Asian as bad drivers", just Chinese and it's a fact.

Didn't say that you said, "Asian as bad drivers" but more so pointing out the many shallow people have perceived and connected that negative stereotype with Asians in general for many years. And yes, it's as shallow as your "Chinese" are bad driver stereotype and nope, definitely not a "fact" as it doesn't apply to all and every group has their own good and bad drivers.

Claiming that Chinese are bad drivers is as shallow and bad as Trump claiming Puerto Ricans as "lazy and ingrates" because there are lazy and ingrates in every other group as well but doesn't apply to all so it's an opinion, NOT a fact.

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Stop trying to twist words around to make yourself like a victim.

I'm not the one that has no game hooking up Hmong girls that don't go to club...

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You must be trying to pick a fight or you must be bored, either way I am not punching bag. It must be missable being you. I wonder what goes through your head all day. You probably get all defensive when it rains thinking God has it out for you or you think the world is about to end when you get a flat tire in a parking lot.
Chill out...


I don't care what you are but I will point out your hypocrisy and shallowness. Speaking of "missable", you're the one that come to a Hmong site crying why you don't have game to find Hmong girls that don't do clubs..

Here's an example of your hypocrisy and shallowness..:

You said this:
"I really don't believe in stereotypes as I am Puerto Rican and Italian and heard many bad things about my race and culture"

But then you also said this:

"..except Chinese drivers..just Chinese and it's a fact"

I can find countless opinions, comments and articles about other groups being bad drivers or are connected with other negative stereotypes too including Puerto Ricans and Italians but it doesn't make it "fact"...just because some members of a group are this or that, doesn't reflect all members...so stereotyping a group as whole is very "shallow"...

Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: Gucci K on January 31, 2019, 07:59:21 AM
Regardless of some people's bad views of Hmong women on here, I dont see that at all. Maybe it's because I don't live in a large Hmong community. I have never look at a race and thought of bad stereotypes (except for Chinese drivers). You will find your black sheep in all ethnicities no matter where you live.
Who cares about persons weight or fingers size lol. The only people who really care about that are shallow people who think their god's gift to the world. Do you buy a car or house because it looks nice outside even though it's falling apart inside? I find larger women have the best hearts and make the best parents O0
OH NO you Did'ain't!!!   :2funny: :2funny: :2funny:

you just offended theking of butthurt!!!  :idiot2: :2funny: :idiot2: :2funny:
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: theking on January 31, 2019, 06:17:41 PM
OH NO you Did'ain't!!!   :2funny: :2funny: :2funny:

you just offended theking of butthurt!!!  :idiot2: :2funny: :idiot2: :2funny:

"OH NO you Did'ain't!!!"

you just enjoyed a ton of "butthurt" from your Master Trump ...Yep, same *shallow* guy that stereotyped Puerto Ricans as being "lazy and ingrates"...

But since the DUNCE Trump disciple that proudly supports lies and fakes and blames women for getting raped loves his Master Trump's semen so much, he won't even care if his master put him down as a "bad driver" using the age old "Asians can't drive" stereotype... All the DUNCE can think about is pulling his master's foreskin as far down as possible so he can run the tip of his tongue around his master's penile gland to capture all the semen behind it.  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: NorCalBoriquen on January 31, 2019, 08:00:51 PM
 :'( yes my feelings are hurt because I care so much about your opinions and comments ::)! When you start paying my bills then lets talk about that but for now your comments are just a laugh on your end because your the only person who finds them funny. I don't get into it with forum Gangsta's, sorry.
Anyhow, for those nice people who replied I just wanted to thank you.
For those forum gansters who lives in their moms basements playing video games all day and hijacks others forums, kee up the great work O0. Your parents must be proud ;D

Peace, I am out. I gotta take my lazy Puerto Rican butt to Home Depot and see if I can find work with the other Mexicans since we are all lazy  :2funny:
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: Gucci K on February 01, 2019, 08:18:53 AM
"OH NO you Did'ain't!!!"

you just enjoyed a ton of "butthurt" from your Master Trump ...Yep, same *shallow* guy that stereotyped Puerto Ricans as being "lazy and ingrates"...

But since the DUNCE Trump disciple that proudly supports lies and fakes and blames women for getting raped loves his Master Trump's semen so much, he won't even care if his master put him down as a "bad driver" using the age old "Asians can't drive" stereotype... All the DUNCE can think about is pulling his master's foreskin as far down as possible so he can run the tip of his tongue around his master's penile gland to capture all the semen behind it.  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
LOL...common sense would tell you that NCB has a right to his own opinion.  and just because it differs from your's, there's no reason to get all butthurt and attack homeboy....

But lets get back to the subject...hmon g women in california are biatches;  you got your poj laibs, gangster biatches, who would lay for any man or blow them up.  then you got Duma's Biatches, these are college students, who don't know any better that gets pimped around until graduate.  the Milf's, old a$$ biatches who would slap you with their stacks of hard earned "green money" if you try to look down on them...last but not least, you got the REAL B!TCH...theking, he need d!ck, too! ha!
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: YAX on February 01, 2019, 09:43:09 AM
Perceiving "Chinese" or even Asians as a whole as bad drivers is as shallow as perceiving "Hmong girls" like to party and drink...

True, as there are bad drivers or members of other groups that also like party and drink ...too.
Those are your words, I never said anything about "Asian as bad drivers", just Chinese and it's a fact. Stop trying to twist words around to make yourself like a victim. You must be trying to pick a fight or you must be bored, either way I am not punching bag. It must be missable being you. I wonder what goes through your head all day. You probably get all defensive when it rains thinking God has it out for you or you think the world is about to end when you get a flat tire in a parking lot.
Chill out...
:2funny:
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: theking on February 01, 2019, 04:16:38 PM
:'( yes my feelings are hurt because I care so much about your opinions and comments ::)! When you start paying my bills then lets talk about that but for now your comments are just a laugh on your end because your the only person who finds them funny. I don't get into it with forum Gangsta's, sorry.
Anyhow, for those nice people who replied I just wanted to thank you.
For those forum gansters who lives in their moms basements playing video games all day and hijacks others forums, kee up the great work O0. Your parents must be proud ;D

Peace, I am out. I gotta take my lazy Puerto Rican butt to Home Depot and see if I can find work with the other Mexicans since we are all lazy  :2funny:

Same to you...don't let the door hit you on your way out... ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: theking on February 01, 2019, 04:18:54 PM
:2funny:

Wow, this is like the 4th or 5th response in regards to me now in just a few hours from this narrow minded ignorant ...Yep, still foaming badly...Yeah sure he tried to keep his words ("ignore") but once his foam takes over, he's just as worthless as his words.. ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: theking on February 01, 2019, 04:23:37 PM
LOL...common sense would tell you that NCB has a right to his own opinion.  and just because it differs from your's, there's no reason to get all butthurt and attack homeboy....

But lets get back to the subject...hmon g women in california are biatches;  you got your poj laibs, gangster biatches, who would lay for any man or blow them up.  then you got Duma's Biatches, these are college students, who don't know any better that gets pimped around until graduate.  the Milf's, old a$$ biatches who would slap you with their stacks of hard earned "green money" if you try to look down on them...last but not least, you got the REAL B!TCH...theking, he need d!ck, too! ha!

Oh check out the DUNCE Trump disciple that proudly supports lies and fakes and blames women for getting raped huffing and puffing about "common sense".. ;D ;D ;D :idiot2:

Yep, same Trump's "d!ck" sucking DUNCE that claimed he has beaten Hmong girls out of race boyfriends when he was younger...What a "Biatches"!!! ;D ;D ;D

But since the DUNCE Trump disciple that proudly supports lies and fakes and blames women for getting raped loves his Master Trump's semen so much, he won't even care if his master put him down as a "bad driver" using the age old "Asians can't drive" stereotype... All the DUNCE can think about is pulling his master's foreskin as far down as possible so he can run the tip of his tongue around his master's penile gland to capture all the semen behind it.  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

His White master can put the DUNCE all he wants and the DUNCE will stilll gladly swallow every drop of his White master's semen...
Title: Re: Hmong Women in California
Post by: Niello on February 03, 2019, 07:11:26 PM
Hi everyone,

I am not Hmong so I do have a couple question about American Hmong women. I once dated a couple of Hmong girls when I use to live in Sacramento, Ca.
I was very attracted to them but I found they liked to party and drink which was a deal breaker for me. I had talked to a couple other Hmong's who also liked clubbing and drinking.
Is this normal for Hmong women or was I taking to the wrong women? I am not into clubbing, drinking or parties. I feel I am too old for that and all I wanted was to have a strong relationship with a family.

hmmm...

It takes time to find the right girl who will stop or change. Just be patient and the right person will appear!

GOod luck!