There could be issue where she is wrong too..
i suggest women respect themselves and value themselves; therefore, others will respect you..
I have a current client whose wife is cheating and putting a restraining order on him. He is still not divorcing her culturally. He says if she ever dies, he won't do her funeral; nor will her relatives, since she's still his wife. "Let the Americans do it for her," he says.
This trend is growing. I've been telling people that--now that we know someone else will take care of our dead, we will let them do so in order to avoid costs.
I've witnessed past cases where someone with life insurance would die and the beneficiaries would keep all of the life insurance money and won't use it to take care of the dead's funeral. The respective relatives have had to take care of it. Then they outcast the beneficiaries.
..don't be surprised if you come upon people without families or relatives and friends in our community.