You shouldn't have these conversations if your diicck eye haven't opened yet.
One time, I was at the club and I was bumping and grinding a Chinese chick at an SF Chinese club. Her friend came back and told us that the guy she was grinding with has a pencil diicck. Now that's messed up.
Well when it was my turn, I placed my booty to her vagina and was expecting to feel a hard vagina but it was crunchy and mushy. Later on that night, I realized that the crunchy sound is her unshaven bush.
Try it out if you don't believe me. Your booty is just as sensitive as your hands. If you grab them, you might go to jail but if you booty grind them, you can feel her hard vagina cuz the upper part of a woman's ahem is made out of bone. If she fat, you on your own.