condolosence and prayers to all those effected. having children is more than just parenting but knowing that this world is mostly dark, cold and ugly. it's a enormous risk. there's no guarantee your children will be healthy , good hearted, and more importantly happy. Most kids today realize this early on in their life these days..for some of us older folks, it took us a while to realize just how ugly this world can be..and for me personally, I just can't do it. Maybe in a better world, but in this world, the one bet I refuse to gamble on is to have children..haha