back in the late 90s, I remember a case of "bride napping"....They got the whole Hmong village to "pob xoo and sha laj" Ultimately, the elders decided not to call the cops, but the sister of the girl who was bridenapped went ape shit beast mode. Hitting everyone, yelling, screaming, etc....me and my friend, hid under the bed and didn't get out until it was all quiet for at least an hour. LMAO That girl and the guy who "bridenapped" her are still together and they have 10 kids. LOL