It all depends on your definition of the club. I went clubbing with my friends who goes just to stand there, pull up their pants n do the rockaway, lean back. To them, that's fun so who am i to judge? Some sits all night at the bar. Some participate n secretly rubbing cooties behind the poor girl's butt. Some stands there n play pocket pool in their pockets. Im a participation kind of a guy. The first to dance n the last to leave. Think of clubbing like fishing. You go there to fish with the best bait and get an a+ for trying. Some don't even try n uses a metal spoon for bait. If you do it long enough, eventually a fish who needs glasses will bite your bait. You intention was not to hook up but if you do it long enough, you might get fascinated by someone that should of been the one for you. Besides, it is a numbers game after all right?
Then again, some people needs that scare to stop them in their ways. It is as though as their relationship needs validation of some kind. Without, you can not measure the true love for one another. Many will fail but if you can pass that test then you guys have nothing to worry about.